I recently responded to a blog on the Neat And Simple Living Cafe
Still trying to learn how to insert links! :(
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So, how come I am so organised at work but not so at home?
I didn't dare dwell on them for too long because I really didn't want to get into the psychological connotations but summarised like so:
@Work
1. I am very territorial so 'a place for everything & everything in it's place' is my motto along with 'borrow what you need & return it - otherwise risk getting your hands chopped off!'
2. I hate clutter so I work in a neat environment & tidy up at the end of the day
3. I have a routine for daily/weekly/monthly/annual to dos in order to be productive with the rest of my time
4. I am accountable for my actions -> work not done=boss not happy=losing job=:o(
@Home
Same as 1,2 & 3 BUT I am not accountable. Hubby & kids can't sack you, right? RIGHT????!!!
It basically comes down to this: at work I am in control of my surroundings & outcomes but at home, I have to share my surroundings and not everyone likes, agrees or works in the same way.
There has to be a compromise. I have discovered that this usually leads to some form of clutter, reduced productivity & disorganisation because I am not totally in control.
Do I sound like a control freak & perfectionist? HELL YEAH!!!!
Something wrong with wanting a neat, well run home with spare time to enjoy well prepared family dinners & outings? Or to spend some quality family time before the kids totally abandon us for their own friends & entertainment? Am I asking for too much?
No wonder I feel like I may have ADD! Hmmmmm, might go to the quack & get it checked out!
What do you think causes your disorganisation @Home
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It covers:
- The best blogging techniques.
- How to get traffic to your blog.
- How to turn your blog into money.
I'll let you know what I think once I've had a chance to check it out. Meanwhile, go grab yours while it's still free.
Monday, August 18, 2008
Decluttering Frenzy
It was my daughter Lisa's 20th birthday on Sunday and we had arranged for a family get-together to celebrate the on-set of her Tweeny years.
I had decided that this year, there would be no home cooking (my mum usually takes control of this), instead we would have 'Pizza (a) metro'. This is gourmet pizza made in 1/2 meter lengths as opposed to the traditional and uninteresting round pizzas.
With the main food all under control, the only thing left was the salads & dips to prepare - prepared by my mum because dad grows his own vegies :-)
A vision of my mum going to the pantry for spices, oils & vinegars and then searching through the cupboards and drawers for appropriate strainers,bowls & salad spoons set me off in a cold sweat!
Mum & I work quite differently in the kitchen. I clean up as I go along whereas mum likes to do it all after she's finished preparing a smorgasbord of dishes.
And that is what sent me into my decluttering frenzy.
I didn't want to be constantly showing mum where I keep things, or discover that I had run out of essential items. I just wanted us all to have a relaxing and fun time.
It was then that I realised that my kitchen was not 'user-friendly', it was only functional to me (not a good idea when you want the kids or hubby to prepare meals)!
I was only going to do a little 'buzz clean' - the utensil drawer, the essential pantry items & salad cupboard. Instead, I went all out and decluttered the whole damn kitchen!
What a lunatic, what on earth was I thinking??? How on earth can I contemplate doing this AND the rest of the housework & laundry the day before a party?
I enlisted the help of (reluctant) kids & hubby and we managed to get it all done - and with time to spare!
Now I will be the first to admit that this is not normal. Decluttering should not be attempted in this manner.
But then again, those who know me will tell you that I am truly unique LOL. Below is how I should have done it.
Easy decluttering:
1. Baby Steps
Start with a small or problem section/area, don't beat yourself up hoping to do the entire kitchen
2. 3+1
3 boxes + 1 garbage bag - 'Sort' box, 'Put Away' box, 'Return/Donate' box + rubbish bag
3. Timer/Clock
Set at 15 minutes
4. Action Plan
Set yourself a realistic goal & time frame for what you want to achieve
5. SPAM Method
Put all broken, mouldy, expired items in rubbish bag & throw out immediately
Arrange
Organise all items in the 'Sort' box into the cleared space, keeping 'like' with 'like'
Return all items in the 'Put Away' box to their appropriate areas/rooms
Return borrowed items and thoughtfully donate what's left in 'Return/Donate' box
Maintain
Regularly review & purge to maintain your organised space
6. Reward
An organised and efficient space to show off !
I had decided that this year, there would be no home cooking (my mum usually takes control of this), instead we would have 'Pizza (a) metro'. This is gourmet pizza made in 1/2 meter lengths as opposed to the traditional and uninteresting round pizzas.
With the main food all under control, the only thing left was the salads & dips to prepare - prepared by my mum because dad grows his own vegies :-)
A vision of my mum going to the pantry for spices, oils & vinegars and then searching through the cupboards and drawers for appropriate strainers,bowls & salad spoons set me off in a cold sweat!
Mum & I work quite differently in the kitchen. I clean up as I go along whereas mum likes to do it all after she's finished preparing a smorgasbord of dishes.
And that is what sent me into my decluttering frenzy.
I didn't want to be constantly showing mum where I keep things, or discover that I had run out of essential items. I just wanted us all to have a relaxing and fun time.
It was then that I realised that my kitchen was not 'user-friendly', it was only functional to me (not a good idea when you want the kids or hubby to prepare meals)!
I was only going to do a little 'buzz clean' - the utensil drawer, the essential pantry items & salad cupboard. Instead, I went all out and decluttered the whole damn kitchen!
What a lunatic, what on earth was I thinking??? How on earth can I contemplate doing this AND the rest of the housework & laundry the day before a party?
I enlisted the help of (reluctant) kids & hubby and we managed to get it all done - and with time to spare!
Now I will be the first to admit that this is not normal. Decluttering should not be attempted in this manner.
But then again, those who know me will tell you that I am truly unique LOL. Below is how I should have done it.
Easy decluttering:
1. Baby Steps
Start with a small or problem section/area, don't beat yourself up hoping to do the entire kitchen
2. 3+1
3 boxes + 1 garbage bag - 'Sort' box, 'Put Away' box, 'Return/Donate' box + rubbish bag
3. Timer/Clock
Set at 15 minutes
4. Action Plan
Set yourself a realistic goal & time frame for what you want to achieve
5. SPAM Method
Sort
Empty the contents of drawer, cupboard or shelf and place 'like' with 'like' items
Purge
Put loved,used & required items into 'Sort' box
Put items belonging in other areas/rooms into 'Put Away' box
Put borrowed, no longer used, unwanted items into 'Return/Donate' boxEmpty the contents of drawer, cupboard or shelf and place 'like' with 'like' items
Purge
Put loved,used & required items into 'Sort' box
Put items belonging in other areas/rooms into 'Put Away' box
Put all broken, mouldy, expired items in rubbish bag & throw out immediately
Arrange
Organise all items in the 'Sort' box into the cleared space, keeping 'like' with 'like'
Return all items in the 'Put Away' box to their appropriate areas/rooms
Return borrowed items and thoughtfully donate what's left in 'Return/Donate' box
Maintain
Regularly review & purge to maintain your organised space
6. Reward
An organised and efficient space to show off !
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